Gym ads and Weight

So I see a lot of ads and articles recently about losing weight or people that have lost weight.It maybe because I am noticing them more or the whole "new years resolutions" thing but there is something that bothers me about them. They all say that you will get some form of self confidence or happiness. This maybe true but what bother me about it is that how much you weight is just a number, to base happiness and/or confidence on such number is a foolish act. People that are thin still lack self confidence, still are not happy with who they are. Happiness is some thing you get from something that you like to do. It is a mental thing, yes your outward appearance does effect that in some way, but if it the only (or the major) thing that make you happy and/or give you self confidence then maybe you have to re-think a few things in your life.
Don't get me wrong if you lose a few pounds then good for you but I wish that they would focus on other things. Like being healthy and not getting/reducing the risk of diabetes, not dieing before you parents do, you get the point. The image in the mirror is only a tiny part of the over all picture and ads and articles like this make me lose faith in humanity a little bit every time.
I really think that as a society we need to re-evaluate what is beautiful and what is pleasing to are senses. Recognize what is really important and cast off all the BS that we are made to believe is real.


Numbers are just numbers, your size,weight or measurements are used by doctors and by health care professionals to help keep you healthy. It says nothing about how happy you are or how sad you are. How confident you are will never change. Losing a few pounds here and there help people notice you, this is true, but if all they care about is looks then maybe there not the right person. It matters what on the inside. Losing weight help that shine through but if that needs work losing weight does not solve said issues.


If only humanity as a whole would see though the superficial BS. Look beyond the guise of the mass's and think for them self once and a while MAYBE we can Learn to get along. A wish that mite not come true, but one can dream.

Things I have learned from the internet.

Some may say I spend to much time on the internet, I am starting think I do. It is not a bad thing thou. I have learned many things, in unconverted ways. From sites like YouTube to 4chan you can learn stuff from making things DIY, to life lesson like how to deal in some kind of situation. 

Forgiveness;Llamas with hats(2)  says it best  "forgiveness sounds like screaming and then silence".

 It is true too. To fight there is screaming, yelling then when you make up you don't say anything. 

Love; It comes in many forms. Often confused as lust. There is some one out there that will love you for you some where. You just have to put some effort in to finding them.  Really does not matter how you look too.  If 4chan is any indication you could be literally a whale, dog, or even dead and some one will find you sexy. which made be realize, you don't need to look like the models in magazines. It just mean you appeal to 90%  of the people. Quality is more important then anything else really. 

Bullying; I find my self looking at odd videos on the internet, case in point "Furniture Porn". I start on cat videos and end up in "that part of YouTube". We all been there, you can't lie ( I have scared people sometimes with what I find on YouTube). So when I find myself looking at bullying PSAs and such, it's not a surprise to me, it also makes me lose faith in humanity. Take for example a scene that plays out a lot in these psa's. The child is sitting at the computer when a window for a IM program comes up with the some stupid user name like "4EvErUrs". The message reading "OMG ur so ugly" the child looks sad and some kind of voice over starts with some stat of how many kids are bullied. What is wrong with this? Well other then the 1337 speak  that annoys the living hell out of me ( I know mine is bad but at lest I try to spell the word right)  I have a few questions. Why would you have them as some kind of contact more then needs be (aka msn/text)? Why would one care what the future kardashian want-to-be thinks of you? Why would one put so much effort in to trying to get in contact with some one you think is ugly?

To me it shows more about the person doing the bullying then the person being bullied. For example think of the steps to do some thing like this. First you have to make anther e-mail account, get the victim  to add you, take the time and wait for victim to log on then type stupid vague, horribly purposely miss spelled words to say  to the clones of the "popular" persons in school/work that you told that so called "loser" in a IM message in a vague, horribly purposely miss spelled fashion that they are ugly. If it sound redundant that is because it is. Why should I care what some  kardashian want-to-be thinks that I am ugly.  I like being "different" it means that I can think for myself. Also think about what Bill Gates or Steve Jobs went through when they were kids. Now it's not "cool" or dare I say "hip"  to own a Iwhatever  or not own a computer.  The same people that teased them  are probably using some product that they need in there dull, boring job as an insurance agent.  Remember that kid in school that was a "Geek", "Nerd" or other words really smart. They mite just be the next Steve Jobs or Bill Gates.

 This may not mean much from some one who visits  the internet hate machine. but when you see a lot of it just makes me wonder what this bully's think they trying to get accomplished by showing there vague, horribly purposely miss spelled insults. At the end of the day  there nothing more then an opinion expressed by the closed minded, ill educated clones of mass media celebrities.  thus meaning nothing to me, and more of a cry for help on there end.

I would like to thank you for reading my post and or posts. I know there is better things that one could do with your time but I appreciate every second that I get of your time. Thanks but now it is time to look on the dark underbelly of the internet and/or play a game of LoL.

Roxy

You can have a "flat man action figure too!

In my look on the vast interwebs I find many things ... this is one of them.

why dose such a seeming Innocent cut out "action figure" Catch my interest? it is in the small details.

1. "comes with 3 action phrses that you can say with your own voice!"
   Really? I can make it say "let go team!" in a demonic like voice! WOW can I also make it say yo mama jokes and "I will take your soul"... well I guess I am IT MY VOICE!
   
2. "Tippy Toes says: Remember always ask your parents permission before using scissors!"
   
   Other then the obvious psycho looking squirrel thing that should not have ANYTHING SHARP AND POINTY! Let get a closer look at this, it is a girl squirrel because of the pink bow and there is a difference between hege clippers and scissors. your cutting out a paper doll, sorry "action figure" not cutting your bush out side your house (get you mind out of the gutter) in the shape of your lover that your stalking, oh sorry waiting patiently for.
   
3. The man in the background with scissors handles poking out of his chest."Not again"
   
   at this point I am think that what happened was one of three things. One; you told the psycho squirrel that her love is one way and he wants nothing to do with her. Two; your incomitant or Three; You don't know how scissors work.
   None the less I ask when did this happen the first time? I mean one would think that you would have learned NOT to repeat ... unless your incomitant but if you are you are in the same boat as the squirrel.

So to conclude and not waste any more of your time or mine let me sum it up You can have your very own apparently named "flat-Man" and have shredder jumpeing adventure and save the day vary tac-fully.

Have fun

Roxy

WECOME ONE AND ALL!

HELLO!
my name is Roxy.
there is no real plan for this i just want to try to get my thoughts out more. the idea in my head are interesting and feel the need to escape from my head from time to time. even tho my spelling and all that jazz may not be all that great it is worth a try.

what will you find here?
well you will have to wait and see i am new to this and love to format things so only god will know.

how often?
can't say that ether just when something pops in my head! wait and see! ;)

from you friend to be
Roxy!